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• Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
• When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
• Follow the three R’s: Respect for self, Respect for others andResponsibility for all your actions.
• Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
• Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
• Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
• When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
• Spend some time alone every day.
• Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
• Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
• Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
• A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
• In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
• Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.
• Be gentle with the earth.
• Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
• Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
• Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
• Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

Truth lies just the other side of anger,
Somewhere in between love and regret.
When walls of self-pity tumble down,
We see for just one moment what we need.

I know that what I said to you in anger
Has severed our umbilical of trust.
And now we are apart, our love is idling,
While I undo my words in lonely sorrow.

I feel your fingers touch me, taste your lips
Upon my tongue, crush you to my breast.
Anger is a storm long out to sea.
By this sweet moon, I know you will be mine.

Recently my father-in-law spoke at a wedding I attended. After 50 years of wedded bliss he offered the couple simple marriage tips. He told them simply that one of the most important the rich tips they will ever get in life is not to be afraid to say, “I’m sorry”. He claims that this one marriage and tip can bring you many happy years as a married couple.

No other phrase is powerful enough to stop a fight and spread peace and joy throughout. Your spouse was ready to serve your head on a platter only seconds before these words were uttered. Now that they are in the open you are able to relax and get to making up.
You may think this solution sounds simple, perhaps too simple for this marriage tips to work. Men and women do not think of these words in the same way. For women, apologizing is easier than it is for man. Most men do not see the importance of apologizing.
Often this causes problems. While men may think that women wanting to hear these words are needy and dependent this is often not the case. Women often tend to feel that if a man doesn’t say these words then he doesn’t mean them, which is also usually not the case. Being able to look at both sides of the issue and seeing where your partner was coming from is one of the most important ways to prevent problems from happening in marriages. Occasionally men need to swallow their pride and say with their woman needs to hear and on the other side of the token women need to occasionally realize that just because their man doesn’t say how he feels does not mean that doesn’t have feelings.
This marriage tip, as with most all tips, is one that does no good to understand if you do not implement it.

Here are some practical marriage tips about how to apologize effectively:
Take full responsibility for your mistakes. Don’t take out your anger or embarrassment on your spouse. Instead of a half-hearted apology you need to let your spouse understand that you truly do have compassion and care about your relationship.
When misunderstandings to happen it is important to not only apologize for the error, but to do acknowledge your partner’s feelings in your apology.
If you have reasons for apologizing make sure that you have mentioned them in the apology. This is much better than giving a overly general apology that sounds more like a sermon.

Use proper timing. When you’ve done something small then an immediate it apology is appropriate. If you have done something a bit bigger and you feel that your partner’s feelings may be hurt you should wait until you get a quiet moment along and then you can let her know she is the light of your life and means the world to you. Don’t do this as she is leaving on her way to run errands.

You can explain what happened but try not to lay blame. Marriage tips can be helpful but you should not expect them to work miracles. It is up to you and your spouse to work through your problems. You shouldn’t expect your spouse to instantaneously accept your apology either. Forgiveness may take awhile and in the meantime that you self and your partner shoes.

Aditya (Shahid Kapur), a defeated industrialist, is even more broken as the girl he loves is getting married. Unable to muster up the courage to return home, he drifts out of the gathering and aimlessly boards a train, bounding away into the night. As destiny would have it, on the train he meets Geet (Kareena Kapoor)  a beautiful but annoyingly talkative girl who is leaving Mumbai to go her hometown  Bhatinda (Punjab). Later, she has plans of eloping with her boyfriend. Geet irritates Aditya to the point of getting him to leave the train. As she tries to get him back on the train, she ends up missing it and the two find themselves stranded on a desolate station with no luggage or money. Begins the idyllic journey through the exuberant North Indian heartland in which this odd couple will make their way through buses and taxis and camel-carts, crossing Highways and deserts and lakes, meeting all kinds of people, to reach her house in Punjab. On arrival, Geet’s family mistakes the two for lovers. Before this misconception can be cleared, Geet escapes to her boyfriend in Manali. Aditya leaves with her, confirming the suspicion that they are lovers. In Manali, Aditya feels empowered to return to Mumbai and resurrect his ailing business. Life takes a positive turn and Aditya begins to do well. One day Geet’s family who think that she is with him confronts Aditya. He is shocked to learn that Geet has not returned home. He takes it upon himself to find her. He finally tracks her down in a Himalayan town and begins another journey to reach Bhatinda and flow into the colors and conceptions of a loud and happy North Indian family!How their separate journeys become one, forms the destination of JAB WE MET, a beautiful and captivating saga of made-for-each-other love. Lilting, musical, amusing and packed with mischievous contrivances  this breezy fun-filled romantic comedy set in cultural North India looks like it’s ready to recreate the magical era of the 90s, in the form of Aditya and Geet, being essayed by real-life lovebirds, Shahid Kapoor and Kareena Kapoor.

Alaia - Stephen BaldwinAmandine - John Malkovich

Apple - Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin

Assisi - Jade Jagger

Atticus - Isabella Hoffman and Daniel Baldwin

Ava - Aidan Quinn/Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Philippe/John McEnroe

Banjo - Patrick and Rachel Griffiths

Chester - Rita Wilson and Tom Hanks

Iris - Sadie Frost and Jude Law

Levi Roan Green - Uma Thurman and Ethan Hawke

Maddox - Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob Thornton

Milo - Ricky Lake

Rocco - Madonna

Satchel - Spike Lee/Woody Allen

Taj - Steven Tyler

Tallulah - Demi Moore and Bruce Willis

Truman - Rita Wilson and Tom Hanks

Willow - Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith

Zola - Eddie Murphy

Amir and Sanjeeda in Nach Baliye

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed. As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:

“I don’t believe that God exists.”
“Why do you say that?” asked the customer.

“Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn’t exist.

Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?

Would there be abandoned children?

If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.

I can’t imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things.”

The customer thought for a moment, but didn’t respond because he didn’t want to start an argument. The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop. Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt.

The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: “You know what? Barbers do not exist.”

“How can you say that?” asked the surprised barber.

“I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!”

“No!” the customer exclaimed. “Barbers don’t exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.”

“Ah, but barbers DO exist! That’s what happens when people do not come
to me.”

“Exactly!” affirmed the customer. “That’s the point! God, too, DOES
exist! That’s what happens when people do not go to Him and don’t look to Him for help. That’s! why there’s so much pain and suffering in the world.”

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